Intimacy should begin with the right intention (Niyyah). The goal should be to strengthen the bond of love, protect oneself from haram (forbidden) desires, and seek the pleasure of Allah.
"None of you should fall upon his wife like an animal; there should be a 'messenger' between them." When asked what the messenger was, he replied, "Kisses and words." (Reference: Al-Daylami) 4. Permissible Positions and Boundaries
Ek dafa ka zikar hai ke ek nou-shadi shuda naujawan, Ahmad, apni biwi ke saath sahaloo zindagi guzaar raha tha, lekin usay Deen ke usoolon aur biwi ke huqooq ke bare mein mukammal maloomat nahi thi. Wo sirf apni khwahishat poori karna chahta tha bina ye soche ke uski biwi ka kya haal hai. biwi ko chodne ka tarika islam me full references portable
It is strictly forbidden to share the details of one's private life or the physical attributes of one's spouse with others.
The following guidelines outline the "proper way" ( Adab al-Jima ) based on the Quran, Sunnah, and scholarly consensus. Intimacy should begin with the right intention (Niyyah)
"Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth when or how you will..." (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:223).
In the context of intimacy, scholars interpret this to mean the husband must not neglect his wife’s physical and emotional needs. Permissible Positions and Boundaries Ek dafa ka zikar
It is encouraged to engage in foreplay ( mula’abah ) before intercourse. The Prophet (PBUH) indicated that a husband should not fall upon his wife like an animal, but should send "messengers" (kisses and words) first.