When Ibu Bapak adopt a healthy lifestyle (cycling on weekends, avoiding gorengan ), the child perceives them as disciplined role models. But hypocritical behavior (buying a fitness tracker while eating junk food) is spotted instantly. Kids today have low tolerance for hypocrisy.
This creates a more authentic household environment where children feel secure because the rules are clear, but the emotional connection remains strong.
For the modern Indonesian child, seeing their parents engage with modern lifestyle trends creates a sense of approachability. When Ibu and Bapak embrace new hobbies—from specialty coffee culture to urban gardening—they model adaptability. This transparency fosters an environment where children feel more comfortable sharing their own lives, leading to a more open, "best friend" style of family dynamic. Conclusion