The Squid and the Whale (2005), though older, set the template for the modern anti-blend. Two brothers are shuttled between their narcissistic father and their more grounded mother, who begins a new relationship with a fellow tennis player. The film ends not with resolution, but with a boy weeping on a school lawn. It’s a brutal reminder that for many children, "blending" is not a synonym for healing.
Which would you like?